In Loving Memory Pat Obergfell Today, five years after her passing, we honor the life of Pat Obergfell. Every day we miss her smile, her contagious laugh and her ability to mother us all. Not a day goes by that we don't think of her. "In our home she is fondly remembered, sweet memories cling to her name. Those who loved her in life sincerely still love her in death just the same."